This brings up a larger issue and puts it into focus. The only guys who have a good time of it are a few select white men. The rest of us deal with a sometimes cruel and inhuman world. As a soceiety I think we need what South Africa called a Truth and Reconcilliation Commission. Our society needs a conversation about how we keep each other down and the lasting effects it produces. We all need to remember that the founding ideals of America are life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness for everyone, not just privileged white guys.