Really? The whole thing about capitalism is that you work hard early, save and invest, and take it easy later. Ideal? No. Churchill said youth is wasted on the young meaning that having experience makes the latter parts of life very interesting. I’m a writer too and it’s a pain in the ass to not make enough money while you are fine-tuning your craft. You have make compromises with yourself and with life. But I can tell you that sugarbabying is a detour to nowhere. If you are a sugar baby I bet you aren’t writing enough or getting involved with writers’ groups to get feedback (just guessing) and I bet you are doing nothing to leverage yourself out of this life financially so that your time can really be yours. There is a good novel in you and I want to see it.