Are you kidding me? As an adult you are responsible for your happiness and for finding your way in the world. Want a good job? Quit skipping trigonometry class, go to college and make something of yourself. Not the academic type? Get a trade. Have you seen what plumbers make? Start a business. But quit whining and blaming women or anything extrinsic to yourself. Also read Richard Reeve’s “On Boys and Men”. He delivers some of the same information you do but he treats that info as symptoms, not answers like you do. You are very lite on data and facts.